Saturday, April 18, 2009

Five simple steps to making your dream Relationship

Millions around the world are seeking to relationship happiness. It takes time. It requires energy. These mandates. Many have. What they do not have a roadmap of valid and reliable relations success. But they have access to Yahoo Maps, or if their personal information used to create a road map is wrong, they will eventually be destroyed. If you are single, and feel lost here, five simple steps you can take your dream relationship.

Step One: Find your belief system

Ask your questions, that I have built a system in my faith? If you do not have a precise answer, it is likely that your database is full of inaccurate information. Thus the first step in relation to happiness is to determine the sources of information focused on the establishment of a roadmap. For example, if you are a man and I think if a woman, or if you believe that women should play the role of damsel in distress, is also based on belief in the story. Poor thing! Great relationships are created when two people work very hard for a relationship of love and beauty. Rescue fears for young people, and often suffer from low self-esteem. So if you believe that morals and values in the search for useless knowledge that will be deleted and replaced with the truths that you move from a relationship of harmony and success. The creation of the new information from reality and personal experience rather than adventure, movies, and Soap Operas.

Step two: Stop doing what you did.

Looking back on the history of your relationship. Think constantly repeated rituals and patterns of knowledge. If you jump on the bed of the third day, it is common practice, it worked for you? If not, why think that this will lead to a successful relationship? I'm a fan of Seinfeld. One of my favorite episodes is when George decides that after all that it does not cause discomfort, is the opposite of his natural instinct. And it works! There is exaggeration of what I recommend. But try to "George" for the rest of the days of fruitless habits and try something new. If the beams of the population does not work, go to the library. If you are physically involved quickly does not work, you can wait. Breaking a link in the chain of unfulfilling habits. What you have to lose?

Step three: Stop from emotional pain

At an early age, we learn that the pain is bad. Document the knowledge of pain from the moment you are forced into the world of the womb of his mother and felt that sharp slap on the ass. With this move, you have written the heavy reality of our world: It is full of painful experiences. With all the emotional and / or physically painful experiences in life, you can write and store knowledge about pain. You can create new volumes this year. Moments of awkwardness, confusion, failure, depression, and the fact to make the same mistakes again and again, all of which presents an opportunity for you to write and store productive knowledge about pain. The problem is that most people constantly struggle in relationships and life, create volumes identical information about the emotional pain. They never take the time to create new classes of pain. Instead they run to the next report, the creep of the bottle, or numbed by medication. Take time to learn from your emotional pain, not running to tell her that you think should be updated and different options. Think about your emotional pain as an ally and a teacher who wants to help you good luck. The pain is not bad, it is a necessary experience in the path of personal growth. Good news is that the more you are on the road, the opportunity to experience the pain associated decreases.

Step Four: Do not ignore the signs.

If you have many times painful relationship, it is likely that you have ignored the signs that the danger was imminent. We believe that we have developed good skills in evaluation and in the majority, most love and care. So when you see the connection time and experience, not feel quite right, many of us tend to brush or the person the benefit of the doubt. It is not fun to do! If the warning does not ignore. Instead, special attention to play and go. Why use months or years to try a relationship with someone who is not for you. You think you can change them? Do you think the problem that led to the "Red Alert" was an isolated case? No cheating. Move to find someone that does not cause fear and pain.

Step five: my first love

Many look to others to feel like a whole person. You've probably heard of the words: "My other half." Use the words: "My other." If you are looking for another person to meet you, good luck. Are you trying to load first. When you think you are a responsible person who can not accept inappropriate behavior of a significant other, you're on your way to happiness in the relationship. A man who loves me and him, or her values and will not tolerate anyone treat him low. Learning to be alone and happy with yourself. then find a partner. You will probably discover that the standard is much higher, and you will attract new residents and the improvement of future friends.

With this basic philosophy of life will increase your chances to find your soul mate. "When the new roadmap to success link screen. You can not change others, you can. Take advantage of these changes and never give up. Remember that this is a game stage of greatness.